Some women hate it when a guy wears a shirt because it looks too formal, but other women love a guy in a shirt because they say it looks smart and elegant. If you want to be attractive to a woman, the most important thing is how you make her feel when you interact with her. Yes, she might have a certain style of clothing that she likes guys to wear, but if your personality and behavior turns her on, she will begin to look at your clothing and style in a more positive light. In the mating dance of the peacock bird, the male is the colorful, pretty one and the female is the bland, plain looking bird. Female peacocks select males based on how colorful and vibrant their feathers are.